Silent Witnesses, Lasting Wounds: Hidden Impact of Domestic and Family Violence on Children and Adolescents
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Room 3: In-Person Only
Wednesday, November 26, 2025 |
11:10 AM - 11:40 AM |
Overview
Reuben Dwyer, 54 Reasons
Details
Child Rights
Children are direct victims not witnesses
Advocacy tools
Speaker
Mr Reuben Dwyer
Senior Practitioner Mens Behaviour Change Program
54 Reasons
Silent Witnesses, Lasting Wounds: Hidden Impact of Domestic and Family Violence on Children and Adolescents
Presentation Overview
Abstract:
Domestic and Family Violence (DFV) continues to be a leading cause of trauma and disruption for children and adolescents, who are not merely witnesses but direct victims of its consequences. This presentation explores the multifaceted impacts of DFV on young people—psychologically, developmentally, socially, and neurologically—highlighting both the immediate and long-term effects. Drawing from frontline practice and current research, it uncovers how exposure to DFV shapes emotional regulation, attachment styles, cognitive development, and behavioural patterns, often leading to intergenerational cycles of violence and disadvantage.
Through a child rights lens, the presentation will delve into real-life case examples (de-identified) to illustrate how children experience DFV in their own right—within homes, relationships, and systems meant to protect them. It also highlights how the silence around children’s experiences of DFV leads to systemic invisibility and inadequate service responses.
Emphasis will be placed on trauma-informed, developmentally appropriate therapeutic interventions that not only address the trauma but actively work to restore safety, connection, and agency in a child’s world. The presentation will also explore how integrated service responses, when grounded in genuine collaboration and child-centred practice, can disrupt the trajectory of harm and build pathways toward healing and resilience.
Attendees will gain practical insights into working effectively with children and adolescents impacted by DFV, as well as advocacy tools to influence systemic change. The aim is to ensure that children are no longer the forgotten victims of DFV, but rather recognised and responded to as individuals with rights, voices, and the capacity to heal.
Domestic and Family Violence (DFV) continues to be a leading cause of trauma and disruption for children and adolescents, who are not merely witnesses but direct victims of its consequences. This presentation explores the multifaceted impacts of DFV on young people—psychologically, developmentally, socially, and neurologically—highlighting both the immediate and long-term effects. Drawing from frontline practice and current research, it uncovers how exposure to DFV shapes emotional regulation, attachment styles, cognitive development, and behavioural patterns, often leading to intergenerational cycles of violence and disadvantage.
Through a child rights lens, the presentation will delve into real-life case examples (de-identified) to illustrate how children experience DFV in their own right—within homes, relationships, and systems meant to protect them. It also highlights how the silence around children’s experiences of DFV leads to systemic invisibility and inadequate service responses.
Emphasis will be placed on trauma-informed, developmentally appropriate therapeutic interventions that not only address the trauma but actively work to restore safety, connection, and agency in a child’s world. The presentation will also explore how integrated service responses, when grounded in genuine collaboration and child-centred practice, can disrupt the trajectory of harm and build pathways toward healing and resilience.
Attendees will gain practical insights into working effectively with children and adolescents impacted by DFV, as well as advocacy tools to influence systemic change. The aim is to ensure that children are no longer the forgotten victims of DFV, but rather recognised and responded to as individuals with rights, voices, and the capacity to heal.
Biography
Ksondra brings experience in implementing child-centred, trauma-informed frameworks within rural and remote communities in North West Queensland, particularly in high-risk domestic and family violence contexts. Her professional dedication is focused on mitigating the effects of domestic and family violence on children and ensuring their voices are integrated into the multifaceted dynamics of DFV. Additionally, Ksondra's background in trauma counselling underpins her commitment to facilitating trauma recovery for women and children affected by domestic and family violence. She is continually seeking innovative approaches to foster safety and restore attachment in parent-child relationships.
